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Thanks for this post! Lots to think about here...

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After too many NBMs,it ends up becoming your business.

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My husband ate two different kinds of ice cream, a chocolate covered ice cream bar and chocolate chip cookies. I was made because I can’t eat that many calories without gaining weight! I was tempted to say something to him but I remembered your blog and reminded myself “It’s not your business.”

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As I read this, I immediately thought of all my COVID-related judginess. It's a thing I've struggled with a lot this past year and, as time has passed, I've found myself becoming such an angry person. Like, all the damn time. Where can I let go when the actions of others so often don't take into account our collective responsibility for each other's lives? Sigh.

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