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Vicki L.'s avatar

Such a familiar story Louise. I too had never been connected to LGBTQ+ folks before our kids came out and then we all went all the way with as much wearable rainbow stuff as we could find but only AT the different events during Pride season in San Diego. As for wearing things the rest of the year...I had always been cautious just knowing how people are...I didn't have to warn my kids about being cautious because they will absolutely not wear rainbow items if it's not Pride time for events...I think they've learned to be protective of themselves as they are in their 4O's and have experienced a few things. I do wear rainbow earings, or bracelets or T shirts now days after many years of not doing so outside of Pride time. But it's usually just one of the above at a time. I've also wanted to do the bumper sticker thing for many years but just am not quite there yet...only for my car's protection. And actually for one of my kid's protection as well as they are in a profession that requires us to be discreet about that personal part of who they are.

We do have a generic garden flag out front tho that covers most of the important thing we stand for and of course full support and affirmation of Rainbow folks and their families is on it as well...We feel it speaks volumes about us to anyone reading it....It says...In this house We Believe...Black Lives Matter...No Human is Illegal...Women's Rights are Human Rights...Love is Love, Science is Real. The Love is Love words are larger than some of the others and are in rainbow colors. We also have rainbow colored lights peaking out to the street that we have on our front deck. Most everyone on our street are cool evidently since nothing has happened in 3 years or so.... I hope to get to the point of flying a rainbow flag out front someday like the fabulous folks in Hillcrest...

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Teresa Wong's avatar

Beautiful story, Louise!

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